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Wedding Planning vs. Marriage Planning

Updated: May 11, 2023

Ahhh the excitement of getting married! It has finally happened! You've gotten engaged, you're setting a date, you're making announcements to friends and family, it's a happy time and it's about to go down! There's so much to do! Engagement party plans to bridal showers, maybe even bachelor parties! It's cause to celebrate because you've made one of the biggest decisions of your life!! Now onto the details of the big day!! Selecting a venue, what will the colors be? How much can we afford to spend? What's our budget? What type of cake will we have? How many guests? What color cake? How large of a bridal party or how small? Who will be in the wedding? What will the bridal party wear? The bride to be is shopping for her wedding gown!! Which gown is the perfect gown? The groom seaches for the perfect suit!! There are toasts of congratulations being made!! Who is our wedding coordinator? Do we have one in mind? Outside venue or inside venue? Hotel block? Family coming from out of town! What music will we play? Who's the DJ? Or will we have a live band? Making a checklist, checking it twice! Everything must be perfect!!
This list can go on forever!!

Looks like you have it all planned out, all boxes checked! Do you feel a sense of relief? There is a lot that goes into planning a wedding and you have conquered your list. But what about planning your marriage??

This is where BMCS comes to the rescue! Most couples don't even think much past the honeymoon or maybe the move in together after the honeymoon. Have you thought about having a vision for your marriage? What about who will pay the bills, are you going to merge bank accounts? How will you handle conflict from now on? What will you do if one of you had a major accident? What if you need to move for your job? Will you be willing to move your in-laws in to care for them?

You may have been dating for months or even years, when you get married the stakes become much greater because now you are in a covenant relationship. Marriage in the sight of God is more than a contract and the adversary is now planning the attack. If you have not planned your marriage you might be in trouble before it begins. In planning your marriage we're talking about planning how you will handle conflict, difficult decisions, and things that are not common to your every day life.

BMCS is here to help you understand yourself, and your mate on a more intimate level so that you can build a solid foundation for your marriage!

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This is very interesting information that in my opinion many people probably don't even think about when it comes to getting married. I know I didn't ask these type questions to myself or my fiancée. Can't wait to hear more of your perspective to marriage, and what does it mean to be in a covenant marriage....

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